singles sites keep you single

Saturday, July 22, 2006
These last few days have been different. I have been able to sepak with a few folks about certain issues. It has helped a good lil bit. Hopefully it will all come together and work as a whole as several different people with several different issues in my life I am seeking them on.

I think I have come to the descision that ALL and I do mean 100% of the dating sites from yaho, match.com, eharmony, and the rest of them ALL DO NOT WORK and are a waste of money. Then I have heard of those who play are the ones who get the prize I am not a player. It seems that even searching for "Christian" women on these sites still keep me at ground zero. I am slowly coming to the fact that God will have to provide if I let him. Most likely someone at church (any church) or through a mutual friend would be the way things are meant to meet.

There is hope as today I am going to a wedding. Looks like the last one I will be going to for the year as no one else I know is having a wedding anytime soon. So I get to look sharp again today!

Oh well just ramblin now. I need to wake up and collect thoughts later. I am feeling a tad bit better today.

3 Comments:

Blogger Refreshment in Refuge said...

Tom, I would like to encourage you in your search for a bride. God wants all of you first. When you can let go and trust Him, become completely satisfied where you are, God will surprise you with the most precious gift of all. But, first, God must be able to trust you to keep Him first at all times. When you have a wife, it is easy to put her above all things. Ask God to be your complete satisfaction. He will.

Saturday, July 22, 2006 10:55:00 AM  
Blogger Jason Ramage said...

I went on eHarmony the other day and filled out their little questionnare thing, mostly out of curiousity. I think the results were pretty accurate. And while I wasn't planning on looking up matches, figured I'd go ahead and see what it would come up with. Well, the site didn't find any matches for me :) So I told it to e-mail me when it did find something.

Next day, I got five matches and the day after that, another five matches. So I turned off the notification option... mainly because none of those ten women sounded very interesting. I think most of them were compatible in the friendship sense, but that was about it.

The most humorous one was one lady who wrote that she "enjoys sharing the same bed with her man." Allllrighty then...

Sunday, August 06, 2006 3:59:00 PM  
Blogger Traci Anerson said...

Please tell me more about your e-Harmony experience...I have thought of paying for a membership...but in a way, like some things about being single. All my life I've had boyfriends...but now as a born-again...there are some things I will not do...until married.

Monday, August 07, 2006 12:00:00 AM  

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